Before you know it, your social calendar will be full of get-togethers with the ones you love. With busier nights and far-from-regular schedules ahead, let’s just say the holiday season isn’t all rest and relaxation! Hence, why not take advantage of the calm before the storm to be at one with yourself and get some sexual healing? After all, grown-ups also deserve a few treats to hold them over until the festivities officially begin, right?
Below, we’ve got 12 suggestions, tips and naughty tricks for sweetie and you to spice things up, one for every day until Christmas, starting today. Ready, set… go!
1. Kiss each other slowly and passionately
When was the last time you and your beau kissed, really kissed? Quick pecks before you head off to work don’t count. Today, turn back the hands of time to the beginning of your love affair and take the time to savour the meeting of your lips and the feelings it arouses like you did back then.
2. Give yourself a sensuous massage
A caress can awaken the sexual desire that lies within us. To reconnect with your body and help your partner plunge into a state of absolute well-being, tonight, forget about your stressful day and let loose!
3. Talk about your fantasies
Does your partner really know what turns you on? Is it doing it in unusual places? Adding certain wildly sexy fabrics and scenarios to the mix? Tonight, put it all on the table!
4. Put sex on the schedule
It’s not always easy to create intimate moments, what with everyday obligations. The solution: set a time and a place where you’ll awaken the lover in you. Eroticizing the wait will feed your desire.
5. Reinvent the wheel
Do you practice oral sex? If so, here’s a trick: use a minty lip balm for a tingly, refreshing effect. Chills, guaranteed!
6. Take a time out
Because attraction feeds on distance and distance makes the heart grow fonder! Today, take some time for yourself.
7. Go sex shopping
A mix of curiosity and a sense of humour is the recipe for pleasure, so why deny yourself?
8. Try a new position
Running out of ideas? Here’s something to inspire you.
9. Watch an erotic movie together
While normally done solo, erotic cinema can become an excellent way to spice up your sex life! And while you’re at it, why not talk about what turns you on?
10. Discover the life aquatic
There’s something very exciting about sex in water! Slippery bodies, new sensations from the different temperatures. Bath time has never been this much fun!
11. Talk dirty
You’ll find precious tips to get started here!
12. Get a quickie
Quick and dirty? Sure, you can, plus it’s very good for you! Here are five reasons why you should go the quickie route.