The business world has taught me to keep your customers happy if you want them to keep coming back and the same goes for sex. Obviously if you are in a committed relationship you will (hopefully) only be having sex with this one person, and it is (hopefully) probably awesome every time. The one thing I don’t understand about the generation today, something I keep seeing people fall victim to is hooking up one time and moving on, even if it was great.
When I speak to my guy friends and ask why they don’t hit the person back up after having intercourse is because they don’t want a long-term relationship, even if the girl was really cool. When I speak to girls, they don’t really understand why the guy doesn’t hit them up because they honestly aren’t even looking for something long-term, they are just looking for some fun. So why do we choose to just have intercourse and keep it moving? Why not try something out that could potentially be a great thing?
So the next time you choose to keep it moving, why don’t you look at sex like a business plan because more than most of the time, both parties involved would be willing to work out an agreement. Here are 5 good reasons why you should reconsider having repeated sex with someone the next time you have a potential interest:
- Amazing sex
This is pretty obvious. They say if something ain’t broke don’t fix it; well if the sex was that good, why change? Having amazing sex with someone will only get better. You will find the rhythm and experience new things.
When you continuously have good sex with someone, your confidence will increase. This person usually makes you feel sexy, which in return makes them feel sexy, which in return, makes you both happier. You will find yourself wanting to do things like work out or be more proactive in work and life in general because you feel great.
When you have sex with a lot of people, it usually gets around pretty easily. Sticking with one partner leaves your reputation quiet so people don’t look at you like you get around but rather respect you because they don’t know who you are getting down with.
- The future.
You never know when you will see the person you have slept with again. It could be at the mall, in a business meeting, or at your new spouse’s family wedding. If you keep things on a positive note and have open communication, you will never be put down based on your sexual actions. Also, having great sex could lead to some type of emotion in the future, so not dissing this person right away could leave room open for a relationship if you ever think about having one.
- A clean body.
Having sex with more than one person ultimately leads to more of a chance of catching an STI. When you are just having sex with one person, the chances of you contracting something are slim to none if you are both open from the start. Keep it clean while getting dirty. “Safe sex is great sex”.