Even though your beau is perfectly content with what goes on between the sheets, who doesn’t enjoy a little experimentation? After all, letting the heat slowly (but surely) rise, isn’t that hotter? We ask our girlfriends, and sometimes we even try to simply ask him, “Just what, exactly, turns you on?!”
Because let’s be honest: it isn’t always easy to get inspired, to be spontaneous, and to keep that fire burning in the bedroom. So here are some easy techniques that can very well blow his mind. So: ready to spoil your man?
1. Play with words
2. Take control
It is (too often) expected that men should be the only ones who should initiate sex. Not simply for his pleasure, but for yours too, have fun by giving him playful commands, guiding him towards ecstasy, and showing him the best road to your undoing. So if you usually expect him to make the first move, try to at least meet him halfway. After all, passivity can be a real mood-killer!
3. Let him watch you
4. Take your time
Action, reaction (and vice versa)? Men don’t simply work mechanically, so it is erroneous to think that they don’t enjoy foreplay, preferring to go straight to the main event instead. In fact, many men enjoy petting and other sexual manipulations which allow them to feel their sexual arousal slowly increase. So have fun with the thrilling build-up until it reaches the point of no return. This allows your partner’s pleasure to course throughout his body (it’s quite a vast playground, isn’t it?), and not only confined to his genitals.
5. Exude confidence