There are tons of ways for you to flirt successfully, but let’s face it; a lot of people doubt their ability to do so when meeting someone new. If you feel that you do not flirt well and are afraid of speaking with someone new because you might make a fool out of yourself, these tips can turn your seductive ways up a notch!
Be Yourself
One of the worst things you can do is to try to be someone else. In order for someone to be interested in you, you need to simply be yourself. Trying too hard DOES make you look desperate and a little bit weird. Even if you’re not a huge flirt naturally, it’ll come off better than if you force yourself to flirt with someone you might be interested in!
The last thing you want to do is to force yourself to mingle with someone you might have just met or are trying to become romantic with at the moment. It is best to stick to normal conversations and eye contact, since this can be a wonderful way to flirt without trying too hard.
How to Flirt
”Hey did it hurt…when you fell from heaven?” There are many ways to let someone know that you’re interested in them without actually making those weird pickup lines. The best way to flirt with someone is by using your smile and eyes. Make sure that you have lots of eye contact with the person who you’re trying to get the attention of, but hey, try to avoid winking too much or even at all… because this too can come off as looking a little weird and desperate.
When you smile at someone, it also gives them the idea that you’ve noticed them and may want to begin talking with them if they’re interested. A smile is a great way to get a conversation going, and it never hurts to give them a the little hint that lets them know that you’re there and willing to strike up a nice conversation. Flirting doesn’t have to be about the pickup lines and sexy talk!
Meeting New People
Self-confidence is another way to flirt with others without even trying too hard. The best thing a woman can wear is her self-confidence because it will radiate to others who might be around her. Flirting can be done conspicuously or outright, and you need to figure out the way that feels the most comfortable for you. This will give you the chance to meet brand new people who are just as interested in you as you are in them!
