Let’s be real, some women fake orgasms, even if they do not admit to it. There are various reasons why women engage in this behavior but it is important to understand the actual impact of the female orgasm beyond its toe-curling pleasure. Seeing and feeling his woman climax gives a man a psychological rush of power, and he feels more masculine for being able to please her. Women know their orgasms boost a man’s confidence, and that is what leads to faking it in some situations. Still not convinced? Here are the most common reasons women fake the big O.
Many men say that they get even more turned on when watching their partner experience pleasure, and it brings them closer to their own powerful orgasm. Gals who are not feeling the earth move will fake an orgasm to bring a smile to a man’s face and boost his ego at the same time.
Not in the Mood
Hey, it happens! Work stress, family problems and PMS all add up to a big, fat “no way.” Sometimes, though, a woman will want to please the man she loves, so she will jump in the sack and turn up the action and volume, even if she would rather be watching House of Cards while noshing on pizza rolls. Yup.
Whether caused by a medical reason or an extra well-hung partner, sex sometimes hurts. Rather than make the man feel bad, a woman may want to speed things along by faking pleasure.
Some women may fake orgasms when their partner either does not listen or simply has poor technique. This is where the “C” word comes in. Communication is extremely important between a couple during sex, especially when they are new to each other and learning what turns the other on.
Lack of Time
Many women absolutely cannot climax as fast as a men, and many cannot orgasm from intercourse alone. If a woman thinks she is taking too long to peak, she may resort to faking pleasure so the man does not become bored or tired. This is another situation where communication is key.
Marriages and long-term relationships often result in a certain comfort zone that leads to skipping workouts, weight gain and just not trying as hard. If a man grows a gut, he may become less sexy to his woman, who will go through the motions rather than telling him he needs to get back on the treadmill.
For the more romantic ladies, having an emotional connection to a man may be a required ingredient for reaching her happy place. A distant partner or an otherwise unfulfilling relationship is a recipe for fake orgasms and other disappointments.
Some women cannot orgasm at all unless there is direct clitoral stimulation. If a man is unskilled at oral pleasure or is simply unwilling to give it, a woman may feel the need to fake her climax.
While deceptive, the fake orgasm is a technique that has saved face, marriages and pride throughout history. It can also be a sign of something seriously amiss in the relationship and should be heeded as a red flag instead of a shortcut to the pizza rolls.