Sex can blow your mind away, but you need to know that just like a journey, the preparation phase is vital on how the rest of the journey will proceed. Preparation in this sense means foreplay. As you grow into a relationship, foreplay becomes a few minutes of awkward groping, licking, and kissing. After that the sex is, well, just plain sex. However, there are things you can do to inject a dose of wild fun into your foreplay. Here are ten ways that will sure make your man daydream about the next foreplay session.
1. Make it Visual
Men feed off the visual plate when it comes to attraction. They are turned on by what they see, and your man is no different. Take care of your looks and make sure you turn up sexy for him. Doing this will start the foreplay even before you touch him. Additionally, you build up a sexual tension that will build in intensity right through the real lovemaking.
2. Use Words, in a Different Way
Dirty words make for wild foreplay. Talking dirty doesn’t mean that you get deep into bad language that might surprise your man. Talking dirty is all about telling your man what you enjoy and why he turns you on. You can even go ahead to tell him what you want him to do to you in details.
3. Take the Wheel
Yes, it feels good to lie back and be covered in kisses from head to toe, but you need to know that your man also wishes you to be the one in charge. Let him lie back and enjoy the magic your fingers and tongue weave.
4. Take Him to Fantasyland
Men also fantasize. If you know your man’s fantasy, go ahead and help him live it. If one of the fantasies is a striptease, go ahead and strip as he watches. This builds sexual tension that you will be a part of, definitely.
5. Play Peek-a-Boo with Him
You don’t have to wait till you reach the bedroom before you communicate your intentions. Give him that squeeze in the cab, or a teasing kiss that expresses more than just “I love you”.
6. Prop it up
Well, he has always handcuffed you, and you liked it. Why can’t you improvise a blindfold from your headscarf and leave him guessing about what is coming next? Trust me you would wish you did this earlier in your relationship.
7. Experiment, and Experiment More
When it comes to intimacy, it is all about the two of you. Everything else loses meaning and all that remains is you and your man, and your feelings. This is why you shouldn’t fear about crushing through the boundaries and trying new things.
8. Take Your Time
A few minutes isn’t enough for unforgettable foreplay. You need to melt into the foreplay and forget about your deadlines. Concentrate on giving pleasure and receiving it in equal measure.
9. Vary It
You have been doing the same thing repeatedly, the same deep kiss, the same lick. Why not kiss differently? Use the tease kiss or the ice cube kiss. Caress him with your nipples instead of your hands, and wait for the results.
10. Got Game?
It’s very easy for you to fall into a routine especially when it comes to foreplay. Use role-play and make it interesting. Don’t pass off that skimpy nursing uniform in the store, or that cheerleader outfit next time you go shopping. These might be the keys to unlock the door to foreplay heaven.