Ladies, are your nether regions feeling rather lonely and neglected these days? Does your man crave or even expect oral sex from you, but doesn’t seem too keen on returning the favor? Or does the mere idea of anyone putting their mouth “down there” cause you to suffer from high anxiety? If any of these apply to you, then you definitely need to read this now!
Experiment
Oral sex has been around for ages, most likely since the beginning of time. So, also, have the many myths and misconceptions regarding this highly-pleasurable yet often misunderstood sexual act. In order for you to have a fun, pleasurable, and adventurous sex life, oral sex is almost mandatory. A good way to test the waters is to simply talk to your partner to see how he/she feels on the subject. One good way to break the ice is to experiment while you’re on vacation. For some reason vacation sex seems even more enjoyable and hotter, and that also applies to oral sex. Try it on the beach or on your hotel balcony. You might just be pleasantly surprised by the results! Just don’t end up getting charged with indecent exposure. That’s a definite killjoy.
Get a trim
One creative way to get your partner interested is to treat your delicate area…delicately. There are several ways to do this. You can choose to have the area waxed, or you can shave. Better yet, get your partner to do the shaving, and all of that water and shaving cream can soon turn into a fun, frenzied frolic the likes of which you never knew existed. But back to the wax job. You can choose to go completely bare, or choose what is known as the Brazilian–a wax job that leaves a small, horizontal strip of hair. For some reason, men find this highly appealing and will likely be begging you to let them have at your nether regions with their hot, moist tongues.
Lube up
Another option when it comes to making oral sex even more enjoyable is to invest in some flavored lubricants. Any sex shop will have them, and you’re likely to be astounded by the variety of flavors that are offered–everything from chocolate to strawberry. Better yet, some of those lubricants also heat up, which means that in addition to the savory sensation of having your guy’s tongue diligently stroking your most sensitive parts, the warmth caused by the lubricant is simply an added bonus and pleasure. To make it even more adventurous, take your guy with you if you’re planning to visit a sex shop. I’m sure that’s one shopping trip he definitely won’t mind!
Educate him
Another important part of an enjoyable oral sex experience involves cleanliness. Some women just don’t feel fresh down there, and some men have been conditioned to think that a vagina will smell and taste bad. Educate your guy on the fact that the vagina is naturally self-cleansing, but you do need to be vaginally vigilant. Use a mild, pleasantly scented soap, and see if you can entice your man into joining you in the shower or tub. Nothing beats the feel of your guy’s tongue stroking your delicate lady parts. Nothing beats having your shower or bath turn dirty!
