Masturbation is a fun ”activity” that provides many physical and psychological health benefits. Unfortunately, when you do something the same way over and over, it tends to become dull and less satisfying. Right? Over time, you’ll probably end up doing it less often and (let’s face it) you’ll end up missing out on not only the health benefits but also valuable personal time! Instead of retiring your vibrator, try adding some spice to your routine. Here’s how to change your masturbation habits.
Find a new venue
Are bland bedroom walls starting to affect the quality of your alone time? If so, try taking it somewhere else for a change. Why not try the bathroom? There’s lots of fun you can have under a hot shower or in a steamy bath. If you have some waterproof toys, you can even add those to the mix. How about the living room or kitchen? Doing it out in the open on the couch or dining chair is daring and naughty, especially if you have a partner. Would it excite them if they knew?
If there’s one thing every woman should have in her masturbatory arsenal, it’s a dildo equipped with a suction cup. These toys possess a huge potential for variety. In the bathroom, you can attach it to the shower wall, toilet lid, counter or anywhere else that might provide a different experience. You can also try sticking it to the seat of a wooden chair and straddling it. This position can give super-deep penetration and extreme sensation. If you straddle the chair while facing backwards, you can use the back of the chair for some helpful leverage.
Turn to porn
You know you want to. There’s a wide world of it available, and there’s something out there to suit everyone’s tastes. Whether it’s erotic stories, smutty videos or dirty illustrations of your favorite TV or anime characters, you’re bound to find something that makes your thighs clench and your fingers tremble. Go ahead, indulge your curiosity. Porn isn’t just for men anymore.
Make it a duo
You masturbate, and if you have a partner, there’s a good chance that they do, too. Why not try doing to together? Some couples find it extremely arousing to watch one another bring themselves to orgasm. Plus, you won’t just increase your own enjoyment. The benefits will also spill over into your sex life, helping to prevent boredom in that area as well.
If your standard assortment of dildos no longer seems as thrilling and adventurous as they once did, consider thinking outside the toybox. What else can you manipulate to satisfy your desires? If your bathroom features a detachable shower head with multiple settings for instance, it’s a great way to get dirty…while cleaning up. However, these aren’t your only options. Start exploring!
No matter how you choose to masturbate, the experience can almost always be made better with the use of a few accessories. Ben-was balls, special weighted balls that are placed in the vagina, provide delectable fullness and pressure during clitoral masturbation. Because of their weight, unlike a dildo, these balls will strengthen the vaginal muscles, increasing tightness. There are also vibrating nipple clamps and suction devices, various beads, and dildos with highly unusual, yet intriguing, shapes. Any of these items can make a fantastic accoutrement to your usual masturbation routine.