Whether she admits it or not, every woman shares a common bond. The young mother struggling with young children in the supermarket, the 30-something woman climbing the corporate ladder, and the older woman adjusting to the empty nest all have a mutual desire. They want to feel sexy and desirable.
The great thing about feeling sexy is that it’s free. It won’t cost you a thing, and it’s something every woman can attain by understanding what sexy is and how to get it.
1. Size doesn’t matter
When it comes to sexy, size doesn’t matter. Whether your friends all hate you because you’re a size two or you shop in the plus-size section, sexy is always in style. Body size doesn’t change the fact that you are a woman with a sex drive. However, If you aren’t happy with your weight or you feel out of shape, start today to eat healthy and exercise. Simply making the choice to take better care of your body will help you feel sexy. making your body stronger by working out will boost your self-esteem. Taking control of your health is empowering and feling empowered leads to feeling good about yourself!
2. Fake it until you make it
If you tend to be on the reserved side, you may not feel comfortable unleashing your sexy side. What if you truly don’t feel sexy? That’s where the fake it until you make it comes in. Start thinking of yourself as being sexy. Start to love your body regardless of the parts you don’t like. There is power in believing. Walk with confidence. Show a little cleavage. Don’t be afraid to flirt a little. Woman, live it up!
3. Stimulate your senses
The things you think about tend to manifest themselves in your life, so read romantic book, watch sexy movies. think about your past sexual encounters (ahem) and how good they made you feel, take a bubble bath with scented candles in the bathroom, sip a glass of wine… just have fun!
4. Explore your intimate parts
Self-stimulation is the perfect way to release tension and get back in touch with your sexual side. When you feel comfortable about your body and touching yourself, you can’t help but feel sexy, and it feels good too!
5. Turn off technology
Take a break from social media and technology and focus on getting back in touch with your sexy side. Don’t feel guilty about taking time for yourself. It’s kinda hard to focus on your sexual side when you’re always texting, answering emails, or checking Facebook and Twitter!